How to talk about home help
to his loved ones?
Addressing the topic of home care with a loved one can be challenging, especially if the person is reluctant to accept external help. Here are some tips to facilitate this conversation:
1. Choose the right moment and place
Pick a calm time when you won’t be interrupted.
Talk in a comfortable and familiar environment where your loved one feels at ease.
2. Express your concerns with empathy
Share your worries sincerely, focusing on their well-being.
For example: “I’m concerned seeing you so tired. I’d like you to have some help to make things easier for you.”
3. Highlight the benefits for their quality of life
Emphasize the positive aspects of home care, such as being able to stay longer at home, feeling safer, or having more time for enjoyable activities.
Explain that home care can actually help them maintain more autonomy and well-being.
4. Involve your loved one in the decision-making process
Avoid making unilateral decisions. Involve them in choosing the type of help, schedules, and even the caregiver.
Ask questions like: “How would you feel about having someone to help with the tasks you find most tiring?”
5. Reframe home care as a positive support
Explain that hiring home care does not signify a loss of independence, but rather support to continue living comfortably at home.
You could say: “It’s just a little help so you can focus on the things you enjoy.”
6. Suggest a temporary trial
Propose to try home care for a limited period, for instance, a few weeks. This approach can alleviate reluctance without long-term commitment.
“We can always try it for a month and see how it goes. If it doesn’t work out, we can always stop.”
7. Listen and address their concerns
Allow your loved one to express their fears or reservations. Be attentive and reassuring, explaining that you’re there to help find a solution that suits them.
8. Involve a trusted third party
If necessary, consider involving a healthcare professional, family doctor, or advisor to participate in the discussion and offer a neutral, informed perspective.
Approaching this topic gently, with empathy and respect, while emphasizing the benefits for their well-being, can help your loved one accept the idea of home care more easily.